I am married, and so is my boss. After 5 years with no proposal, it might be time for an ultimatum. Looking back on it I wish I had done it a bit earlier…. I need his actions to match his words. But if you break up, you need to get divorced. You need to think about them. I just know j deserve more.
I'm the only one with a long-term girlfriend. ET March 7, Updated 2: Hi Im sorry no one can state he doesnt see you as his wife no one knows whats going on in his head. My advice is to choose option two and break up. I was dating this girl for 10 years Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Why Marriage so freaking important to tell everyone they are committed to someone.
I was upset because I dont see why we need to wait for that.
Dating five years and no proposal? Time for ultimatum
Us to have often talked about marriage and he said the same or just not financially stable as we started off very very young in a relationship so I completely understood we've had tons of ups and downs as we were super young and in a committed relationship and with child at a young age never really got to experience life much never did the club thing we went out with friends much someone doing it now all that starting to have an effect. Marriage is not a priority for me. These women can waste years with a guy who is never going to marry them. I have always made it clear that I wanted to be married by the age of What ended up happening are you engaged.
7 Years Still No Proposal? What Should You Do?
He has reasons why he hasn't done it. I just wish I had some idea of when he thinks he will be ready…. Remember Me? You need to make yourself abundantly clear and then put the ball in his court. I have friends who dated for 10 years before getting engaged and are happily married with kids. I battled this with my relationship for a bit.